Single Traveler Tips
1. If you are going to travel alone, do as much advance preparation
as possible to make your adventure more comfortable. PLAN PLAN PLAN
a. Research your destination; use materials from your travel agent,
from the Web, and from your local library. Study the history of
the region, the customs, the language (if it's other than your own
native language), the literature and music, and notable sights.
b. Have all your travel arrangements finalized before you leave.
Make sure you know how you are going to be getting from one place
to another. If you are in a foreign country, it is easier to proceed
if you have this advance knowledge.
c. Take only what you will wear, which is probably half of what
you've laid out. This is the time to be ruthless. Nothing is more
exhausting than lugging around bags full of things you thought you
"might" need. Limit yourself to what you can carry by
yourself: a roll-around suitcase, a tote or backpack, and a money
belt.
2. Making friends when you are traveling alone is much easier than
you think. People seem curious about the solo traveler and will
not hesitate to begin speaking to you. Eye contact with others around
you and a simple smile is often all the invitation someone needs
to speak with you. An honest curiosity about those around you is
often welcome. Sometimes hotel personnel will be happy to introduce
you to other travelers.
If you are by yourself at a resort or on a cruise, participate
in as many fun and game activities as possible. Most resorts and
cruise lines have activity coordinators whose job it is to make
everyone comfortable and happy. Make sure you get to know them.
3. Safety for the solo traveler is an important issue. Be aware
of everything that goes on around you. Walk with confidence and
with your head up, eyes panning the surrounding area. If you appear
to be in command of yourself, you are less likely to be a victim.
Check with locals to see if there are areas you should avoid - either
in the daytime or at night. If you are traveling to a foreign country,
check with the State Department for any warnings about the country
you will be visiting. Keep an eye on your belongings at all times;
do not leave your luggage unattended and do not have your wallet
in a prominent place where it could be snatched. Don't become paranoid
about the situation, but do be alert.
4. Eating alone is often a difficult time. How does one make this
enjoyable rather than bearable? While it may sound strange, put
all your senses on a higher level of sensitivity. Use your eyes
to look around the dining area -- observe every detail and keep
your mind occupied by making up a story to go along with every other
diner. Use your sniffer to absorb the smells. Savor every bite you
take - don't rush your meal, and try to commit the flavors to memory.
If you are going to take a book with you or if you gulp down your
meal in record time, you might as well have remained in your room
with a bunch of crackers and a bottle of fizzy water.
5. Keep a journal of your experiences while traveling alone. It
takes some discipline to maintain a journal regularly, but writing
daily will also fill some time when you are enroute to a new location
or are by yourself. It will also serve as a future reference for
place names and sights after you return home and are relating your
experiences to others.
6. An advantage of solo travel is that you are flexible. YOU decide
where to go and what to do rather than having to compromise with
a travel companion. If you are a single traveler on a tour, you
still have lots of free time and again, your free time is your own
and not a source of argument or contention with whomever you're
traveling.
7. Other people will be in awe of you for traveling alone. "How
brave you are," they will say. Secretly you know that all it
takes is some self-assurance and a curiosity about the world around
you to make solo travel an enjoyable experience. Go for it!!!
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